Releasing The Past

My dear loved ones,

I would like to talk about a way to free yourself and feel your soul; the real you that may be hiding from life.

All of us have life experiences and stories to tell. It may have been a one time event, a repeated experience or may still be continuing today. 

Some have experienced loss, abandonment, physical, emotional and spiritual abuse. Tremendous pain and suffering, to the point of feeling lost, no hope or foreseeable future. And many have taken their lives because they cannot bare the pain anymore. 

Many of these experiences have come at a very young age and you may not remember a lot of
the details, they seem fuzzy. You may not know or be sure who the person was or is that caused you such pain.

If you were a young child, you had no way to take care of you or protect yourself. You were and are a victim of society perhaps, at a time that you should have been loved, nurtured and provided for instead of abused, neglected and tossed aside.

But you are here now. Somehow you survived your past and or current experiences that have been blocked, hidden away and not spoken of.

We all have similar stories and experiences in life, and we think we are the only ones. It is too shameful to talk about; the guilt and self judgement is too much to bare, we are bound in these chains that keep us stuck. We are afraid, we have been blamed and conditioned to think it is our fault.

Loved one,
understand that you're not at fault. You didn't ask for such atrocities to happen to you. It was not in your control to stop it. You couldn't have if you wanted to....
So much in this world that hurts, that destroys, that separates us from our true identities. 

There is a way that can help you free yourself from your agonizing past or current experiences. To do so, you will need to let go of fear; be brave, take a small step and reach out.

If you tell your story to one person, to a group, or here on social media, you will start to release the chains that have bound you all this time. The locks will open and fall off. You will be able to breath, release and let go of it all. Your heart will be full of love, freedom, forgiveness and compassion. This is the beginning of your awareness to learn to love you, take care of you, and rediscover who you are.

We all want to be loved, nurtured, heard, respected and understood. We all deserve it, and it starts with loving yourself enough to do it.

Loved one,
In doing this, you will free yourself from the chains that bind you. From the ghosts of the past, to your truth in the present. You will also discover that there are many who have experienced similar situations as you have and they understand you.

The mere fact that you are still here says you are a strong survivor. We can all help encourage each other with our stories and begin our healing. I share this with you from a heart of unconditional love and acceptance. There is no judgement or condemnation here. Each of us is part of this human family and experience. 

You may say, there is no one i know or trust to tell my story to. Think hard; they're people you can seek out. You may even share here or message me privately if you are afraid to be totally transparent. That's okay to, the sooner you take a step, the closer you will be to releasing those chains. I encourage you to do so.

Just realized that these experiences have taught us lessons and are instrumental in who we have become today. When we are consciously aware of things, we can then take steps to make changes in our lives.

These experiences teach us much about ourselves and what we want and don't want in life. You choose and create what you want, you have that right, it's your life and nobody else's. 
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It is all about your relationship with yourself and others. Live your life in peace, joy and love.
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Be blessed, ❤
Phil

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